ALLI ANSWERS
Check back and see the questions and the answers as they come in. All questions will be posted along with Alli's responses as they come in. Dear Alli, I have these neighbors and sometimes they can get soooooo mean. I like them, but they make my sister feel bad and they cause so much drama. They're also making my friends act like jerks. I let them stand up for their sisters, but when I stand up for mine they get mad and tell their parents a whole different story. What should I do? Sincerely, Had enough
Dear Had Enough, I'm so glad you asked a question like this and felt that this website was a safe place to get a good Christian answer. My advice to you would be to just continue to be nice to them and show them God's love. People are not always going to act the way we want them to, but as long as we are doing what we know we should do, that's all that matters. Just keep showing them that there is no reason to be mean and rude to your sister. They will see that there is something different about you and you never know how much they may be watching the way you act. Keep showing Christ's love to them! In Christ, Alli ----------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Alli, I really like this guy, and I'm going out with him, but my parents don't know. What do I do? If I tell them they will never trust me again. But if I don't tell them the guilt will eat me alive. What do I do?
Dear What do I do, I know that sometimes it is hard to tell your parents things that you don't think they will approve of, but not telling them will make it much worse. I think you should tell them. You need to think about why you don't want to tell them. Is it because you don't think they will approve of him or like him or is it because they have told you that they don't want you dating anyone? You need to tell them because in the long run they will trust you a lot more if you tell them the truth instead of hiding it from them. If they find out that you are dating him some other way, they really won't trust you at all. God tells us that we need to honor our parents and hiding things from them and keeping secrets from them is not honoring them. I hope this helps! In Christ, Alli ----------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Alli, whenever i go to school on the bus i always sit with my best friend Allison. my other friend Casey used to sit with her best best friend tylar, but then the bus got to crowded so they kick her Tylars bus stop off our bus to a new bus. so now Casey is sitting with Allison all the time and is stealing my seat next to her. i also think Allison likes her better then me now because i don't have a cell phone like them and can't prank call the boys.what should i do. sincerly, TOTALLY suprised Dear Totally Suprised, I know that being a 12 year old girl can be frustrating and tough. Just remember that you can't please everyone and that some people do not think about how they might be making you feel. You may need to talk to both of the girls and let them know that you do not feel like you are included at all. If they get mad at you then they obviously are not real friends. Real friends will listen and try to find a way to include you in what they do. If you hae any more questions please feel free to ask me. Have a very Merry Christmas! In Christ, Alli
----------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Alli, I have this problem. I was at my friends house watching movies, and then all of a sudden my friend brings out a ouiiji board. She asked me if I wanted to play, I said no. I sat back on the couch while every one else was playing. None of my friends are christians, they are all catholic. I tried to explain to them that it brings out demons and spirits, but they didnt believe me. Next thing I know I was playing it. What happens after you play it for a long time? Will demons posses me? Can they even though I have accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior? My friend that has the ouiiji board is now into doing Witch-craft. She is trying to lure me in, but I said no. what do I do? I'm really confused!!! Dear Really Confused, This is a great question. I know it is hard when your friends are doing something even if you know it is wrong. You need to remember that you are a Christian and you need to obey God's Word. The Bible tells us not to participate in witchcraft. I do not think that you have been possessed by demons, but I don't think you should participate in any thing of that kind anymore. Let me know if you have any more questions. Sorry it took so long to get back to you. Have a Merry Christmas! ~Alli ----------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Alli, i have the BIGGEST crush on a guy named max and he is dating one of my best friends and she knows i liked him what should i do!? Confused Dear Confused, My best advice would be to talk to your friend about it. There should never be a time when a guy comes between you and your best friend. All you can do is tell her how you feel about the situation and that it makes it hard to hang out with them when you like him. If you have any more questions please feel free to let me know. Have a very Merry Christmas! In Christ, Alli
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